Dumbfounded Grace <3

There is a point where you live, in the +ve x direction is your higher self, and in the -ve x direction is your death, and we oscillate along the x-y direction throughout our life back and forth.  -Nishita

You are the sinner for some of you.


“People and situations do not cause you pain.
Your thoughts and emotions about them do.
You can change those reactions.
This is the key to freedom.”
– Ram Giri

You and I have moments in where we do not know the purpose of our living, of our life, our our presence. Seldom we have to refer to our past, ask our friends, to confirm to us our rewards. It is strange!  We all go through the heartbreaking and destructive phases in our lives where in there are no stars only the harsh reality.

Wait a second did you read the word ‘harsh reality’ in the last sentence, oh again one of our misconceptions. Reality is reality, it isn’t harsh, we are the ones who create it, our thoughts, our feelings, our attraction power which is our passion, is the sole reason for its existence. The moment our faith is shattered so is our probability of being at peace.

There is nothing like the harsh reality. There IS NOTHING LIKE HARSH REALity. NOw, ofcourse i do talk about alot of magic and the wonderful things that are happening, but that doesn’t make me unaware of the fact, that is happening with the world.

I am a newsreader. I know what is happening in the world, right now. I know what we people are going through, from the economic crisis to the victims of Syria, from the lack of basic facilities for most of the people to the senseless criticism we all receive on a daily basis. I am well aware of that, but does talking of bad, makes us feel better. 

Here I quote My English Teacher-Ms. Hema :

“We all cry, but what is the use of it, do our problems fade away after we cry? NO they don’t , then why do we invest  our energy in crying? It doesn’t make us stronger And then she said, that if at all there was a need to cry we must after crying become our own hero and resolve to solve our problems”.

 Let me use these words of Eckhart Tolle, to explain to you the concept of pain body:Many stressful emotional patterns repeat themselves again and again.

This is the invisible threat of Self-Sabotage. And it is invisible simply because it is an unconscious pattern that repeats itself.There is an unseen force that causes us to unconsciously seek pain over and over again. Of course no one would do this consciously. No one likes to suffer. And yet we unconsciously create repetitive and unnecessary conflicts.These self-destructive habit patterns are known as the Pain Body. It is a powerful unconscious force with great momentum. It’s purpose is to continue the pattern – to bring us pain.The Pain Body is the shadow aspect of our being, the emotional part of the ego. If we want to live in harmony with ourselves and the world, we need to dissolve it.

We create our own reality through our thinking and our emotional patterns. Until we change them, the same problems are likely to happen again and again, including our tendency to self-sabotage to keep the patterns in place. This is how we can stay stuck for a long time. Now the concept of pain body clearly helps us understand why we can be sad, and still have no control over it. Let me tell you, this pain body is very much present in each one of us, but there is a trick to it.

If you do not feed this pain body you eventually let it take a place inside you which is not at all invited. 🙂 Things happen, only if you want them  to happen.

Permitting your life to be taken over by another person is like getting the waiter to eat your dish. -Vernon Howard

Wanting to run away, doing the same mistake?Never sit in the car when you are not the driver. Anger is born out of being identified with the fear you feel when others wont conform to your point of view.Self pity and past regrets are born out of being identified with the idea that you could have done differently than you did. If you could have, you would have. It only ties you the old life level that didnt know better and keeps you from the one that does. Any lingering sadness is an unnatural life-form kept breathing by the false self’s reluctance to let it go. -Guy Finley.  ❤ 

Repeat after me: And I will on my own undo my wrongs. Heartbreaks are out of stock forever. I am in love with me eco-system. 

Do not try leave them behind. If they come back , let them arrive. Don’t be easily swayed by the love they have to offer to you, dependency often leads to mess. Do not believe that your path is their path and the vice versa.

Here I quote words of my Hindi Teacher-Ms. Dipti :  ” She said there is an art of being detached, attachment leads to complexities, which the normal mind cannot well handle. In every relation you got to give space to the other person else the relation that was one worth it, falls apart, like autumn leaves. ”

Detachment isn’t being not attached to anybody it is the ability to see your life as a pth on which you would walk, with and without the help of people. Always being concerned about the the strings attached takes you nowhere. Being stitched is different than being being connected.

And now would I be most pleased to tell you, that the you that was reading this post has now been transformed to a newer and an active you, who knows and thereby moves in the direction of the +ve x direction 🙂 Sending you love. A random hello is the best selling option. IN Life we got to learn to sell our brand  either we stagnate and eventually die. 












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